Relationship

Society is nothing but network of relationships between human
beings. So if you know how to bring peace in your relationships you
are in turn forming a peaceful society. Now the question is not how to bring peace in our relationships rather why there is no peace in our present
relationships.

You want something from somebody and as long as that person
comforts you or he/she behaves as you wish you say he is my best
friend, and the moment he stopped that you say he/she is my enemy, is that
what you call relationship?

When you want to possess a girl/boy but he/she hates you or rejects you, how do you feel? Don't you feel painful if you are not educated enough you will become aggressive and behaves like an animal. So till the end of your life you will live with these hurts and one day you will die, is it not mandatory to learn why you are getting hurt in your day to day life. Can't you understand your own expectation in relationship is the root cause of suffering not the other person who doesn’t love you?

Don't you think it is so stupid and childish, you do live with all these misunderstandings about life, you never solve the problems of fear, desire, suffering, relationship but if you lived with intelligence for a moment,
you think you are intelligent. I can never establish True relationship
as long as I don't understand about myself. When you start understanding about yourself, slowly you will realize you are the rest of the mankind. Because you
suffer and the other also, you expect something in relationship and other too, you fear about your security and the other too, you say you are good and the
society is corrupted and the other also, you wait for the other to change and the
other also, you argue that he is wrong and he also do the same.

This chain you can broke only if you step forward without waiting for the society to change. This very act of stepping forward is a revolution within, which comes
through understanding of what you are in the present and it is the real education and this revolution might be the greatest bliss that human being can have.
This revolution comes through awareness about self without any effort or struggle.

I may give or take something from that person but when I expect that he/she will always loves me, you will definitely end up in suffering. True relationship is only possible when there no psychological expectation at any level from the other person, because the other is also a human being like you and he is also doing the same thing. With that very ending of expectation starts a pure sense of love.

Can you understand these things so deeply so that they become your day to day life, which means never saying "I understood", because true self education is eradicating the self not self improvement.